Welcome to the world of writer and dating coach Cynthia Spillman

Inspirational solutions to the challenge of finding love

Helping you meet your match:

When it comes to finding a partner, there are more ways to get it wrong than right!  I come from the right “heart set”.  It took me a very long time to work out that the guys I used to be attracted to were completely wrong for me.  I endured a lot of  emotional pain, two failed marriages and many more abusive episodes, before I finally realised that the best things in life come in surprise packages!  What I wanted in a life partner wasn’t what I actually needed.

Do the inner work:

In 2002 I had that vital moment of clarity. The gift of desperation – which forced me to finally wake up to the fact that happiness is an inside job. The penny dropped – I figured out that, in order to attract Mr Right as opposed to Mr Right Now, you have to first do The Inner Work. You must be at peace with yourself. What you put out there, you get back again. There are simply no shortcuts and no quick fixes. I’d previously tried all of those with the end result being that I was hurtling even further down the road to perdition and permanent loneliness at an alarming speed.

By the time I’d met my third husband Peter in 2002, I’d managed to transform my inner life.  The results were almost magical.  Along came Peter – the best thing that has ever happened to me!

If you’re determined to reinvent yourself so you too can find love, click here.

As a result of doing The Work, I have a life truly beyond my wildest dreams. I’m blissfully happy in my marriage. I have self-esteem and self-worth.  Now it’s my mission in life to help others to achieve the same.

The love of a good man was well worth working for!

Live life – love life:

In January 2013, I launched The International Dating Academy.  With my team, we offer a whole range of training courses and dating coaching services to provide you with a road map to finding and keeping the love of your life.

I want to share these fantastic tools with others. So – if you want to learn how to sizzle through the rest of your days, with the partner of your dreams, on this amazing roller coaster called life, jump on board. Start right now by clicking here.

My book – “From Dinner Date to Soulmate – Cynthia Spillman’s Guide to Mature Dating” is available and here is a sneak preview of Chapter One:

Dating After Divorce, At A Mature Stage in Life, And More

Please click here to order your copy:

Comments are closed.