Inspirational solutions to human challenges
Jumping the abyss of despair to a better life
I used to be known as “The Benchmark for Horror”. In 1987, the car which I was driving burst into flames. My 5 year old son, Anthony, burned to death and my 7 year old daughter, Samantha, suffered severe facial burns, necessitating many years of painful reconstructive plastic surgery. It wasn’t just the car which was totally wrecked – my whole life was too. I was diagnosed with “Post Traumatic Stress Disorder” but, believing somewhere deep down inside that labels are for jars and not people, I eventually chose to fight for survival, rather than to take the “easier” option of jumping off the nearest cliff and ending my suffering. If you want me to show you how to transform your life, click here.
How I’m qualified by the school of life to help you overcome adversity:
The journey wasn’t an easy one. I battled addiction to alcohol and prescription medication. I suffered from crippling depression for many years. I made appalling choices in the man department. 2 marriages fell apart. I struggled under the soul-destroying burden of debt and abusive relationships. Often, I felt consumed by the galloping inner void which threatened to overwhelm me like an emotional tsunami. Towards the end of my most extreme period of active alcoholism and drug addiction, I was virtually in the gutter – a real hopeless case. I would wake up every day hoping to be diagnosed with some terminal disease rather than face another 24 hours of despair. To see how I can guide you from misery to happiness, click here.
Do the inner work:
In 1997 I had that vital moment of clarity. The gift of desperation – which forced me to finally wake up to the fact that happiness is an inside job. I’d already put the pills and the booze down. I’d also figured out that, in order to attract Mr Right as opposed to Mr Right Now, you have to first do The Inner Work. You must be at peace with yourself. What you put out there, you get back again. There are simply no shortcuts and no quick fixes. I’d previously tried all of those with the end result being that I was hurtling even further down the road to perdition at an alarming speed.
By the time I’d met my third husband Peter in 2002, I’d managed to transform my life. If you’re determined to reinvent yourself, click here.
As a result of doing The Work, I have a life truly beyond my wildest expectations. I’m blissfully happy in my marriage. I enjoy close relationships with my family and friends. No longer either some man’s “traumatised appendage”, or completely dysfunctional blob in the workplace, I have self-esteem and self-worth. I’m involved in running our family legal services business. I’m a published writer, something I had always dreamed of being and I also own an award-winning training company. However, the biggest pearl to be prised from the jaws of my life’s continuing adversity is that I’ve found and retained inner peace – no matter what life throws at me.
I didn’t wake up one fine day with this particular brand of manna magically dropping out of the heavens. Peace and joy began to manifest themselves when I truly accepted at a visceral level that, in order to live outrageously well, you have to first get out of your own head – in a positive way –taking action to improve all areas of your life, gradually unpeeling every layer of your own inner onion. To see how I can teach you to extract your very own pearl, click here.
If your life’s a nightmare seize the keys now to unlock the door to a better life:
Challenges will always come and go. Nobody escapes suffering in this life. I’ve crafted the keys to success, forged from more than half a century’s personal painful experience and gleaned wisdom. Using those keys – my life’s been transformed from a nightmare to nirvana.
Now I want to share this fantastic route map with others. So – if you want to learn how to sizzle through the rest of your days, on this amazing rollercoaster called life, jump on board. Start right now by clicking “what’s on offer”.
